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Let’s talk about sex, baby – TEDx talk

My TEDx talk – ironically advocating for dialogue via a monologue. Talking Think 2 Speak, sex education and HIV prevention comprising of the following toolkit:

  1. Condoms
  2. Sexual health testing
  3. TASP – Treatment as Prevention
  4. PEP and PrEP
  5. Conversations skills
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World AIDS Day 2017 – meeting Prince Harry and Meghan Markle

Jay and I were invited to meet Prince Harry and Meghan Markle in Nottingham yesterday to share with them our story and the work that Think2Speak does with young people across the country. Surreally Meghan recognised me from the BBC One documentary The Truth About HIV which featured our story and a student HIV workshop!

It was also the first external event for the Think2Speak management team as a trio – with new additions to the board Alan Searle and Matthew Stringer both able to attend.

Further coverage about the day and our conversations below and Terrence Higgins Trust’s, who coordinated the event, press release:

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#WISE100

So very very proud of my place on Natwest’s WISE100 list recognising women in social enterprise.  Incredibly humbling to be listed alongside people achieving truly remarkable things in social enterprise and investment. The list is a new initiative in partnership between the Natwest SE100 Index and Pioneers Post. 

James Murphy, Lincolnshire Community Foundation kindly accompanied me to the event last week in London where the list was announced. 

‘The achievements of 100 leading women in social enterprise were celebrated last night at the launch of the WISE100.

The WISE100 (Women in Social Enterprise 100) WISE100 is the first ever index to recognise inspiring and influential women in social enterprise, impact investment and social innovation.

The new initiative has been created by the NatWest SE100 Index in partnership with Pioneers Post. At its launch event in London this week, the WISE100 brought together women from across the social enterprise and private sectors to discuss gender inequality in the workplace and the powerful potential that this new network of women has to encourage peer-to-peer support among women in social enterprise.

Baroness Glenys Thornton, CEO of the Young Foundation, is one of 100 women to feature on the WISE100 list of women who have made an outstanding contribution to social enterprise (see below for the full list). At the launch event, Thornton announced she was on a mission to bring the WISE100 initiative to parliament.

“I’m leaving the Young Foundation to go back into parliament and I intend to make the all-party group on social enterprise one of my priorities when I get back there. And I also intend to ensure we pick up this mantle of the WISE100 and women in social enterprise in parliament. That’s very important to me.”

In May of this year it was announced that Baroness Thornton would be stepping down from her role as the CEO of the Young Foundation because she had ‘decided it is time for her to return to frontline politics’. Baroness Thornton has been a member of the House of Lords since 1998.

When we challenge the inequalities that we face as women it opens up space to challenge other inequalities around sexuality, race, class…

The launch of the WISE100 comes at a time when gender inequality in the workplace is dominating the mainstream news. Every day this week new accusations regarding sexual harassment have been made against Hollywood producer Harvey Weinstein.

Belinda Bell, director at the University of Cambridge Judge Business School, programme director of social venture incubator Cambridge Social Ventures and a member of the WISE100 selection panel, expressed her exasperation at the state of gender inequality. She said: “I definitely did not think this was where we’d be in 2017… and yet every single one of us women in the room knows that we have been judged, we have been touched and we have been commented on inappropriately in work settings.”

Reflecting on the high proportions of women in the social entrepreneur accelerator programmes she directs, Bell continued: “It doesn’t seem like rocket science to me – it is that we are not discriminating against women.

“The reason that it matters, apart from that it matters for women, is that when we build publicity for women in the way we are doing tonight, when we challenge the inequalities that we face as women, that also opens up space to challenge other inequalities around sexuality, race, class and all the rest.”

Write down your stories, claim your successes

The launch event of the WISE100 in itself demonstrated the importance of network initiatives of this kind. It brought together people working within a great variety of sectors and offered the opportunity for guests to talk openly with old friends and meet those who are only recently entering into the world of social enterprise.

More than 250 women were nominated for the WISE100 and a panel selected the final 100. The ‘Spotlight 10’ were ten women selected from the 100 to be featured at the launch event.

Karen Lynch, CEO of Belu, is one of the Spotlight 10. She reflected on her career: “In the world of banking and media, to ask for help was admitting you were not good enough. To ask for help, support and collaboration in the social enterprise world is to join together for the common good, delivered through doing business.

“Write down your stories, claim your successes and go out there and tell your stories and those of this wonderful network, the WISE100, that you are now part of.”

June O’Sullivan, CEO of the London Early Years Foundation, Maggie O’Carroll, CEO of The Women’s Organisation, and Sophi Tranchell, CEO of Divine Chocolate, are also among the social enterprise influencers to feature on the WISE100 list.

The Spotlight 10

Susan Aktemel Director Homes for Good
Claire Dove Patron SEUK
Niamh Goggin Director Small Change
Pauline Graham CEO Social Firms Scotland
Karen Lynch CEO Belu Water
Caroline Mason Chief Executive Esmee Fairbairn Foundation
Maggie O’Carroll Chief Executive Officer The Women’s Organisation
June O’Sullivan Chief Executive London Early Years Foundation
Glenys Thornton Chief Executive The Young Foundation
Sophi Tranchell Managing Director Divine Chocolate

The WISE100

Liz Allen Board Member Social Enterprise UK
Amy Anslow Founder-Director hiSbe
Ruth Anslow Founder-Director hiSbe
Belinda Bell Director Cambridge Social Ventures
Caroline Bennett Founder & Chief Executive Sole of Discretion
Emily Berwyn Managing Director Meanwhile Space
Suzanne Biegel Founder & Chief Catalyst Catalyst At Large
Adele Blakebrough CEO Social Business Trust
Hazel Blears Chair Social Investment Business
Cecile Blilious Co-Founder & Managing Partner Impact First Investments
Ruth Brock CEO Shakespeare Schools Foundation
Lisa Marie Brown Founder Pinkspiration CIC
Diane Burridge CEO Moneyline
Tracey Bush Chief Executive Officer Spiral Health CIC
Natalie Campbell Trustee UnLtd
Jennie Cashman-Wilson Founder Abram Wilson Foundation
Bonnie Chiu Founder Lensational
Sarah Crawley Co-Founder & CEO iSE
Cecilia Crossley Founder From Babies with Love
Jean Cumming Founder & CEO Crisis Ltd
Kelly Davies CEO Vi-Ability
Jane Davis Founder & Director The Reader Organisation
Sarah Deas CEO Co-operative Development Scotland
Meg Doherty Founder & Director Fat Macy’s
Carole Donnelly Enterprise Network Manager Coventry University Social Enterprise
Ciara Eastell Chief Executive Libraries Unlimited
Francesca Findlater CEO Bounce Back Project
Lucy Findlay Managing Director Social Enterprise Mark CIC
Heidi Fisher Director Make an Impact CIC
Emma Flaherty Founder MoneyGirl
Esther Foreman CEO The Social Change Agency
Sarah Forster CEO The Good Economy Partnership
Alison Foster Area Manger GLL
Michele Giddens Founder & Partner Bridges Fund Management
Rosie Ginday Founder & CEO Miss Macaroon
Alex Goat CEO Livity
Lisa Greenhalgh CEO MSIF
Lindsey Hall Chief Executive Real Ideas Organisation CIC
Lucy Harding Chief Operating Officer & Co-Founder Dementia Adventure
Julie Hawker CEO Cosmic
Mursal Hedayat CEO & Founder Chatterbox
Jenni Inglis Director VIE
Lucy Inmonger Investment Manager LGT Impact Ventures UK
Lizzie Jordan Founder Think2Speak CIC
Ren Kapur Founder & CEO X-Forces CIC
Heledd Kendrick CEO Founder Recruit for Spouses
Chantal Khoueiry Founder Brides do Good
Lily Lapenna Founder & Chair MyBnk
Rachel Law Chief Executive PossAbilities CIC
Anna Laycock Executive Director Finance Innovation Lab
Elaine Lilley Chief Executive The EBP
Mairi Mackay Global Head Social Enterprise British Council
Marie Marin Chief Executive Employers For Childcare
Kate Markey Managing Director Blue Sky
Rose Marley CEO Sharp Futures
Jo McGrath CEO Enterprise Stuff
Karen McGregor CEO Firstport
Allison Mckay Managing Director Humatics CIC
Melanie Mills Social Sector Engagement Director Big Society Capital
Bernie Morgan Trustee RBS Community Loan Fund
Servane Mouazan Director Ogunte
Una Murphy Co-Founder / Director VIEWdigital
Roslyn O’Callaghan Founder Swaddle
Antonia Orr Chief Executive Coalition for Efficiency
Daniela Papi-Thornton Social Change Educator and Social Entrepreneur Skoll Centre for Social Entreprenurship
Geraldine Peacock OBE Ex-Chair Charity Commission
Megan Peat CEO RBS Social & Community Capital
Holly Piper Head CAF Venturesome
Sue Quinn Director Social Business Alliance CIC
Geetha Rabindrakumar Head of Engagement Big Society Capital
Jo Ransom Board Member Social Enterprise UK
Jessica Robinson Founder & Managing Director Moxie Future
Abbie Rumbold Partner and Head of Public Services & Mutuals and Health & Social Care Bates Wells Braithwaite
Sandra Schembri Chief Encouragement Officer The House of St Barnabas
Susie Simon-Norris Chief Executive Somerset Skills & Learning CIC
Emma Stewart Joint CEO Timewise
Kate Stewart CEO We Make Places
Sophie Unwin Founder The Edinburgh Remakery
Kim Wallace Networks and Development Manager SENSCOT
Zoe Wallace Head of Academy Agent Academy CIC
Sarah Wallbank CEO Yes Futures
Kate Welch Chief Executive Social Enterprise Acumen
Kresse Wesling Co-Founder / Director Elvis & Kresse
Rachel Whale Founder & CEO Koreo and Charityworks
Rebecca White Director Your Own Place CIC
Anna Whitty MBE CEO ECT
Paula Woodman Senior Social Enterprise Advisor British Council
Emma Worley Co-Chief Executive Officer The Philosophy Foundation
Sarah Wren Chief Executive Hertfordshire Independent Living Services
Michelle Wright CEO Cause4

For more information about the WISE100, click here.

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I am not infectious #CantPassItOn

It’s a very simple, but powerful message. 

  • I am HIV positive
  • I am on effective treatment
  • I am not infectious

I am proud to support Terrence Higgins Trust’s campaign that launches today! 

Read more about the campaign and the science that supports it here.

Huffington Post: http://m.huffpost.com/uk/entry/uk_5953a1bde4b0da2c731ffebf

The Metro: http://metro.co.uk/2017/06/29/mother-with-hiv-says-modern-treatment-is-so-good-you-cant-pass-it-on-6740355/

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The Truth About HIV BBC One

I was one of the contributors to the BBC One The Truth About HIV documentary which aired last night and is now available to watch on iPlayer – click here to watch me in action! 

The programme shows some of the work I do in schools, educating young people on amongst other things – HIV and sexual health. I also shared my personal story, the reason behind Think2Speak’s formation, with Doctor Chris Van Tulleken, the programme’s presenter.

If you’d like to know more about the workshops we offer or to chat with me about a session, a talk or a workshop in a school, college or university – please do get in touch by emailing hello@think2speak.com or call the office on 01522 253 155.

 

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The Truth About HIV – BBC One 9pm tonight

Tonight’s the night! 9pm tonight (Thurs 25th May) you can spot me as I take part in the BBC One documentary ‘The Truth About HIV’. They featured me delivering one of Think2Speak’s HIV and Sexual Health awareness workshops in a Lincolnshire secondary school. I’m then interviewed by the wonderful Doctor Chris Van Tulleken – whose tweet below on the day of filming totally made my day!

For more info to book me to speak in a school do get in touch and also please check out Think2Speak’s training page here.

There’s a great piece on Huffpost by Natasha Hinde’s which simplifies 9 key messages from the programme – click here to read her piece.

 

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11 years I became Mummy & Daddy

11 years ago today I said goodbye to B, my child’s father, and I unexpectedly, suddenly became both Mummy and Daddy to J.

J was just 13 months old then, and that meant that those early days were cruel and surreal; J was babbling and would point at people who resembled Daddy questioning ‘Dadda?’, there would be a knock at the front door and J would point ‘Dadda home!’.

As J grew older, he’d come home from school telling me how another teacher had physically grimaced when he’d said, so matter of factly as children do, ’my Daddy is dead’. I have always instilled frank and honest conversation between J and I; we do use the word ‘dead’ not the confusing ’gone away’. We sit. We talk. We listen. We love.

J is now 12 and understands that B died of an AIDS related infection. J is also now aware that I am living with HIV. J has age appropriate knowledge, and an awareness of HIV and sexual health in general far surpassing many adults I meet in the training and workshops I deliver!

About four years ago, hearing J explain, yet again, that people ‘don’t know what to say, that’s normal Mummy’ sparked something in me. Knowing that that reaction just wasn’t good enough, nor acceptable and that the adults involved in, and working within J’s life, those who encountered J, should be able to have conversations, not avoid conversations and at the minimum be able to confidently signpost to support; do anything but never ignore them or make that person feel that they can’t talk openly about what is in fact their day to day life. 1 in 20 children in the UK have experienced the death of a parent.

I knew I had to do something.

These interactions J encountered spurred me on to found Think2Speak. To create a hub of support, training and advice to help people who work with young people tackle those conversations that many grown ups would rather avoid, to help young people be able to talk about what’s bothering them, whatever that may be, and to help people have a space where they can talk about their family, their network and their experiences.

What J and I do both believe, and is the founding principal of Think2Speak – is that talking about ‘these things’ whatever ‘these things’ may be – NEVER makes it worse! Grown ups can learn so much from the child like qualities of ‘chatter’, of simply having a conversation, losing the motive that often drives adult conversation, never assuming to know what’s bothering a young person..

Think2Speak has enabled so many conversations. I am so proud of each of the schools that have embraced our proactive, preventative approach to wellbeing by becoming Think2Speak Members, safe in the knowledge that our counselling and therapy services are there for them when needed.

I burst with pride that in our first twelve months the team and I have:

  • Worked with over 2000 young people
  • Trained over 400 teachers, staff and carers/parents
  • Delivered over 350 counselling sessions
  • Helped people talk about grief, domestic abuse, HIV, puberty, PSHE, emotional wellbeing, mental health, sexual health, self harm, depression, anxiety, stress, change and loss and the list goes on.

As both Mummy and Daddy to J, I am so proud that Think2Speak is able to support other young, people just like J, and families just like ours, and not just within schools.

With your help, we can help so many many more! Click here to visit www.think2speak.com, share what we do and make a donation to help us support even more young people who need someone to talk to!

Thank you!

Lizzie @fashionthing

‘You’re a star’ BK 7th June 1972 – 29th March 2006